6 Reasons Why You Are Not Getting A Girlfriend In College

Why You Will Not Be Getting A Girlfriend In College, Or Any Time Soon!

If you are single by choice or because you just love being alone, that is awesome. None can blame you for that. Sometimes we all need the time off. But if you've been on the prowl and perpetually come up short and come home alone or wallow in loneliness when your friends are cuddling their girlfriends, its time you took the long (proverbial) look in the mirror and face some hard truths. The first step would naturally be taking a look at those traits that are likely to turn off girls into never looking your way, or scare away any prospective dates you get!

The dating game is survival of the fittest, and if you are barely scraping by and about to embark on yet another cuffing season solo, you need to evolve.Here is a good place to start 10 Reasons Why You You Are Not Getting a Girlfriend in College.

1.You have no ambition.

Today, a very big percentage of women place inordinate emphasis on a man’s ability to earn some money. Although getting a girlfriend does not depend on how much money you have, you need to show that you are an intelligent human being who has dreams and goals. It is sexy when a man is passionate about something, and ruthlessly pursues it.

If you are complacent, unmotivated, or show no passion for anything, your game will suffer, too.

2.You are a misogynist.

If the last time you went on a date with her you were busy making sexist jokes about how she should be in the kitchen making you dinner, stop asking yourself why she never picked your phone the next day or worse still, why you are still single. This is also true for those guys who only talk about how their ex-girlfriend broke their hearts and how all women are untrustworthy!

Women may have reluctantly retired their hopes of chivalry, but they are not willing to give up on finding a man who genuinely respects the opposite sex, and most importantly, actuallylikesthem. Therefore, you have this problem, you should work on it. Or see a professional!

3.You Do Not Take Girls On Real Dates.

Dating is the building block for any relationship. Moreover, a first date is the foundation to the relationship. If your foundation is made up of lame dates that inevitably center on alcohol and sex, you are not exactly sending commitment-ready signals.

Wooing a woman is important. It demonstrates that you're the type of guy who will put effort into a relationship, and it expresses that you think she's worth putting thought into.

Take her to a date without alcohol and all the noise in a nightclub where you can have a good talk. Take her on dates during the daytime to show her that sex is not the goal, it's getting to know her that you're interested in. And while you're at it, introduce her to your friends. This will show her that you are serious with her.

4.You And Your "Boys” Drink Too Much!

In college, its cool to drink on school nights to the point of slurring. However, if all you can talk about is how many shots you can consume in an hour, you are not going to impress any girls in college! All you will succeed is driving them away! Girls will see you as the perpetual party animal, and not as the romantic guy she wants to cuddle with on the couch watching a romantic movie.

5.You Reek Of Desperation!

If you did not believe that nice guys finish last, I am confirming it now! When women say that they can't get hot for "nice guys," or those guys who try too hard. If you come on too strong, too fast and inundate her inbox with emoji heavy text messages, you need to dial down the thirst.

Don’t let your desire for her become an obsession! Women can sense when you are desperate because you emit fear and anxiety. Tone down a bit because if you go on her too fast, she will think you are the creep who may end up hurting her if she rejects you!

6.You’re bad in bed.

Yes! I Said it! Sex is one of the most important ways to connect with a woman emotionally. You might have good chemistry with your clothes on, but if you are missing, the mark with them off, it is unlikely she will want to sign up for a monogamous relationship with you. If she is going to have sex with one person, it had better be explosive! Make sure you give her your best performance otherwise; she will turn cold on you!